No one ever said interracial romance is easing.  Sometimes it can be a cruel world out there.  In fact, some women might even say to your face that they are not attracted to Asian men (or Latino, black or anything else).  Yes it’s cold.  However, you have to view rejection as a test.  A strong alpha male doesn’t let rejection bother him.  He has the strength and smarts to be able to continue a conversation even after being initially rejected for whatever shallow reason.  Consider a woman’s rejection like a filtering process.  She probably gets hit on three times a day, and so has to turn away at least a dozen guys a month right away if she hopes to keep any time to herself!

If you are going to assume the role of a strong male figure who gets lots of women, you must first put away the behaviors of the average, wimpy man.  In considering some international, interracial dating tips that never fail, think about why a lot of Asian men (and men of all races for that matter) get turned away by those high in-demand white chicks.

1. Fear of the American Woman
First the self-limiting belief that an Asian man doesn’t deserve a beautiful woman of another race, as if she’s “out of his league.”

2. Lack of Killer Instinct
Having a killer instinct is powerful and denotes leadership and strength.  Killer instinct is really about competitiveness and the lengths you are willing to go to get what you want.  This is the attitude that will keep you trying to win—and it will make you drop dead sexy to women.

3. Being Asexual
A lot of Asian men fall into the trap of being too asexual, because they fear coming across as too horny or too interested.  This is self-defeating.  If you show your potential date no sexual charisma, you are promising her nothing.  When you start to show fear, you show a lack of sexual confidence and this is always a turn off.

4. Nice Guy Syndrome
Asian men always act with honor, so it’s easy to see why treating others honorably can easily lead to nice guy syndrome.  Nice guys never get laid—because they are so afraid of sexual tension and afraid to reach out and make this “friendship” sexual.  Nice guys are seeking constant validation.  They’re easy to take advantage of, desperate and needy.  To be “too nice” and Asian (which frankly, a lot of white women have never had the privilege of dating) is usually a guaranteed no.

Your first lesson in becoming an Asian player is to identify these downfalls and avoid this behavior like the plague.  Be yourself—not the guy who is so determined to be nice that he ends up finishing last place.

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